Does Size Really Matter?

I’m a flat chested woman hear me roar! I have stuffed my bras, double stuffed my bras, I have water bras, extra cleavage bras you name it, got it, did it. Then it occurred to me, does size really matter? I mean, I spend more money on stuffing my bras than on make-up.

I guess to some it does matter. Keira Knightly found that out when she seen her flat chest was enhanced for the publicity photos of her new movie “The Dutchess,” she refused for her photos to be “enhanced”. I’m proud of Keira for standing up for us flat chested girls out here. I think she is pretty but I guess not pretty enough.

It took me awhile to accept my little lady lumps. There’s so much pressure out here to look a certain way. I must admit I fell into that trap. I have tried all sorts of bras and stuffing. I mean don’t get me wrong, I still wear my extra cleavage bra from Fredrick’s of Hollywood but not to the grocery store or to get the mail, I mean really….there’s a limit to my madness.

There’s a documentary called “America the Beautiful”. I highly suggest this movie to anyone that’s feeling the pressure of plastic surgery. Don’t get me wrong there’s nothing wrong with a little plastic surgery but there are some that find themselves addicted to “looking good”. I consider myself to be a level headed person that was obsessed with my small chest that I would actually stuff my bra.

Funny story, I was on a date some years past and well….I stuffed my bra with the only thing I had at the time which was socks…..yes, I said socks. I’ve been on a couple of dates with this guy; he wanted to give me a tour of his home in the hills. To get to his front door I had to climb a long flight of stairs, once I got to the front door he answered and wow what a cutie pie! I was fixated on this guy not knowing one of the socks was creeping up. He gives me a tour of his home which means more stairs to climb! To make a long story short one of the socks fell out unbeknownst to me. He found my sock on the floor and asked me with a bewildered look, “is this yours”? In my mind I was like, OMG!
I said, yeah…..where did that come from that’s weird?

The lesson in this story is, learn to love and accept yourself. Does size matter? For me, NOT ANYMORE!

Thought of the day:

Love life, engage in it, give it all you've got. love it with a passion, because life truly does give back, many times over, what you put into it”

Maya Angelou